The pregnancy

‘Everything was new, it was all exciting’

Realising something was wrong

‘I think I knew that he’d probably died’

Being told your baby has died

‘I felt I had to stay focused at what needed to be done’

The time before giving birth

‘I kept on thinking once the baby is born we'll see’

The birth

‘I had a glance of his back view and then he was gone’

Spending time with your baby

‘Just those few hours of being her dad for a little bit’

Being back at home

‘I went into terrible depression’

Deciding about a postmortem

‘We need to find out the reason’

The funeral

‘That was extremely difficult actually seeing his coffin’

Relating to family and friends

‘It started bringing things up for everyone ’


‘I wouldn't even know what it really means to grieve’

Remembering your baby

‘People think you’ve just lost a pregnancy’

Pregnancy after loss

‘I feel on the surface of everything at the moment’

Insights and advice

‘Since we’ve had Daisy everything’s become more stable again’